The good thing about Bad days

Bad days are bad, they are like a badass and it hurts when I say that good thing about bad days because there is nothing good about bad days but trust me there is. If you are having bad days, you are lucky. I am not a crapbag to say that on your face, just hear me out okay?

First of all, you need to understand that a bad day will come to challenge you and the only strong area of you will be challenged. If you have enough money that you don’t give a fuck about it so you will be challenged financially and if you are mentally strong that you take pride in your mental strength than the bad news is that you will test to your limits, it is how it works and this is how you improve. The good thing is, which you know already is that whenever this phase will be over and you will be good and successful, you will look back at these days a focal point and you will compare that how you used to feel and how you have improved. Not only that, things you will learn in this phase especially one that involves giving yourself time is what will define your future. Now back to why I said you guys are lucky to have these bad days because these days will define your future and those people who don’t get bad days, doesn’t get the push to break the cycle and do something incredible. I have been through two bad phases and one phase made me the writer and the second one made me start my own damn company along with a new book. It hurts, hurts a lot but it makes you better. Now back to why I said that good thing about days is because there is a good thing and that thing is that when you have bad days they come with the good news that they will be followed by good days and those good days are way too cooler than the normal good days. I think its enough of philosophy for now as having bad days doesn’t make u feel good reading about this shit, eh?
So let’s move to phase two and talk about getting rid of bad days.

For this, you need to understand that bad days come for two reasons either to push you out of a cycle of life is teaching you a lesson. The lesson can be anything, you are sticking to something, job, relation, people or anything that isn’t good for you and you can’t get yourself out of it, *Ding, Ding* Who’s there? Oops, the bad days are here to teach you to get the hell out of that situation. You can be having all the blessings in the world and if you are feeling ungrateful for something that you don’t have, ding ding, bad days are here to kick your ass. It happens, my friend and the best thing to do is to learn the lesson. It makes you a good person. Don’t try to fight the lesson, if it’s a person, break up, it’s a thought, get it out of your system, it is about your degree, who cares about a piece of paper? Don’t let society be your judge. People have survived without a degree and they became legends, why can’t you try.  Remember, good thing comes to those who try for it. Ok Ok, don’t be mad at me for still taking nonsense and not about how to fix these bad days.

You need to keep the feelings out of the system because more the thoughts and feelings are bottled up inside you, the more it will sting. If you have friends you are lucky, share it with them. If you are having assholes, better not to discuss with them because they don’t care about your feeling but about the gossip they are getting. Try to write those feeling out, yell them, record them, whatever but get them out of your system. You can use the out of the box system, in which you can randomly talk to a stranger about feelings and get their feedback and block them or whatever suits you because stranger can’t judge you so it is easy, right? Just remember, don’t talk to people who try to compare your bad days with their, I mean that sucks, that blows your mind because no one wants to know about their fucking days, you need to get all the attention you want.

Most of you will try to hurt yourself, especially suicidal ideas, its okay. Its normal but remember this is not who you are. Giving up is not a choice here so if you try you’ll be fucked up in the hereafter. So its okay to think about it but better not to attempt anything. There will be regrets and regrets for the rest of your life if you even try cutting urself. It’s a bad idea and doesn’t help at all. No one gives a damn anyway so if you are gonna do this to yourself then this is the reason life is giving you bad days, you don’t respect yourself. Open your eyes and respect yourself first, listen to your heart, are you being fair with yourself. Are you? See, you need to work on it.

Bad days take time but eventually, they go, so hold on, okay. Find a purpose, a friend a reason to hold on to. Try to look at the beauty of life, the colors of rainbow and even the green of life, don’t you want to be back where you can adore these colors, where you adore living a life, you do and you know it to hold on to yourself and make the best out of these days because what you will learn today will shape your future. I assure you that good days always follow the bad days and there will be a light back in your life, brighter than it used to be and this time will pass and you will see yourself in the mirror and you will smile because you know you have evolved so my friend, hold on until that moment. You are strong and you can do it. Remember success never lies in victory but it lies in the amount of effort you put in and the amount of satisfaction you get out of it.

 The story was originally published in The Meraki Magazine

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